Yeah, both here and on Reddit - now that I’ve seen that dumpster fire - you don’t seem to have the self-awareness to see other people’s perspectives. That’s a huge red flag, and it can cause major problems with aviation.
You provided an example of this right here in this reply that I’m quoting: Instead of asking me to explain the holes in your argument, re-read the posts you don’t like assuming that they are, in fact, giving you a helpful perspective. You are throwing the burden on others instead of owning the learning you need to do, and yes, you were seeking validation rather than understanding because the majority of your replies are defensive.
As I mentioned in my first reply, I frequently don’t bill reasonable cancellations, out of genuine concern for my clients, and trust that my financial needs will be provided for, but if I was your instructor, I would also likely be sending you to a different CFI after reading this thread unless you displayed a significant change of attitude because this kind of stuff, in my observation and experience, is more likely to get someone hurt than you might think and I wouldn’t want to be responsible for that.