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Don't make life unfair to him because life was unfair to you.Well I just don’t understand how that’s fair as sick as I was. I could never do that to someone if the roles were reversed.
Don't make life unfair to him because life was unfair to you.Well I just don’t understand how that’s fair as sick as I was. I could never do that to someone if the roles were reversed.
Is it though? You came here to vent about it.It’s water under the bridge.
And you have absolutely no business whining about the flight school following a published policy.Do not try to say how sick I was or how I felt. It wasn’t an “excuse” for forgetting, and you have absolutely no business making that accusation.
"You were well enough to drag yourself to the ER... how sick could you have been?!?" Spoken like an employer of illegal labor who pines for the halcyon days of 19th century antebellum.Is it though? You came here to vent about it.
Sorry bud. You had the strength to go to the ER. You had the strength to send a text.
I'm sorry you live a lone so there was no one else to call.Well what about when you’re badly sick, and are asleep almost around the clock, and the last thing on your mind is a flight lesson?
It’s not that I “didn’t bother” notifying them. I didn’t feel like it.
Sounds fair. But I'd want to watch the tar and feathering.the place I get my haircut at has a sign saying if you are a no-show to more than 1 appointment you get tar'd and feather'd and they also charge you the apt fee. I'm a man so I don't make haircut appointments but for those who do, they've been warned!
"You were well enough to drag yourself to the ER... how sick could you have been?!?" Spoken like an employer of illegal labor who pines for the halcyon days of 17th century antebellum.
Will the tar and feathers cover up my bald spot?Sounds fair. But I'd want to watch the tar and feathering.
Terrible take. It takes zero effort to send a text message. ZERO. OP probably had plenty of time while sitting in the ER waiting room. It's literally just a lack of concern for inconveniencing the CFI and impacting their livelihood. "I didn't feel like it" is just about the crappiest response one could have for the situation."You were well enough to drag yourself to the ER... how sick could you have been?!?" Spoken like an employer of illegal labor who pines for the halcyon days of 17th century antebellum.
FWIW, the victim mentality isn't going to serve you well in aviation. Good luck to you.Do not try to say how sick I was or how I felt. It wasn’t an “excuse” for forgetting, and you have absolutely no business making that accusation.
Amazing. Most pilots I know need machines to fly, and dispense with the cape. Not you, apparently.FWIW, the victim mentality isn't going to serve you well in aviation. Good luck to you.
How is “they applied a policy to me that applies to everyone, and I’m not happy about it,” not a victim mentality?Amazing. Most pilots I know need machines to fly, and dispense with the cape. Not you, apparently.
Yall I need some advice. I had a lesson scheduled this past Saturday, and Friday morning I woke up sick with a stomach virus. I wound up in the ER the majority of Friday morning, and even a week later I am still not 100% better. Well as you might imagine, I was still really sick on Saturday, and slept pretty much all day, and didn’t think to call or text my instructor to cancel. I woke up approximately 3.5 hours after the lesson time, and immediately texted and apologized and told him what had happened. Well today I was looking at my bank account, and noticed a $215 charge I wasn’t expecting. I texted him about it, and he said it was a no show fee from Saturday. I don’t think that is fair considering I was sick. What’s yalls thoughts and what should I do?
Really? You had no problem having your CFI shower, drive to work and stand around earning nothing because you couldn’t be bothered to send a text.Well I just don’t understand how that’s fair as sick as I was. I could never do that to someone if the roles were reversed.
There are many examples in history of "legal" "policies" that were nonetheless abusive of those to whom they were applied, and which, not coincidentally, would never have been established by those who did so had they the slightest inkling that they themselves might be subject to them.How is “they applied a policy to me that applies to everyone, and I’m not happy about it,” not a victim mentality?
noticed a $215 charge
I figured $215 was about 3 hours at $70/hr. The instructor want to be paid for being at work. Employer still needs to pay taxes, insurance, benefits (if that a thing for a CFI.Perhaps it is to be punitive, or perhaps it is not only compensating for the instructor but the lost rental on the aircraft as well.
Not relevant, as the OP didn’t establish the policy, and we have absolutely no evidence that the people who did establish it think it shouldn’t apply to themselves.There are many examples in history of "legal" "policies" that were nonetheless abusive of those to whom they were applied, and which, not coincidentally, would never have been established by those who did so had they the slightest inkling that they themselves might be subject to them.
Agreed…and again, we have no evidence to he contrary.Is OP a "victim"? in the strict sense of the language, probably. But I think it is abundantly apparent that the phrase "victim mentality" was used pejoratively.
Or possibly when he was incapacitated, he still accepted that he had made commitments that needed to be honored.I can only assume the person who used it was never incapacitated by illness at any time in their life. More strength to him if so.
Depends. How big is the bald spot? Do they have enough tar?Will the tar and feathers cover up my bald spot?
We might ask the school for a copy of the refund receipt when they cancelled a student -- likely on zero notice -- because their plane was down for maintenance. How common is that in the industry? Like I said -- one-way "policy".Not relevant, as the OP didn’t establish the policy, and we have absolutely no evidence that the people who did establish it think it shouldn’t apply to themselves.
That wouldn’t make it unfair, nor make the OP a victim.We might ask the school for a copy of the refund receipt when they cancelled a student -- likely on zero notice -- because their plane was down for maintenance. How common is that in the industry? Like I said -- one-way "policy".
Let’s compare an illness 24 hour prior to a flight and maintenance.We might ask the school for a copy of the refund receipt when they cancelled a student -- likely on zero notice -- because their plane was down for maintenance. How common is that in the industry? Like I said -- one-way "policy".
And whatever the maintenance cancellation policy of the flight school is, the OP accepted it along with the no show policy when he scheduled the lesson.Let’s compare an illness 24 hour prior to a flight and maintenance.
Most flight schools today use online booking. When the plane is cancelled on Friday for a Saturday reservation, the student gets notified by emai on Friday.
There are many examples in history of "legal" "policies" that were nonetheless abusive of those to whom they were applied, and which, not coincidentally, would never have been established by those who did so had they the slightest inkling that they themselves might be subject to them.
Is OP a "victim"? in the strict sense of the language, probably. But I think it is abundantly apparent that the phrase "victim mentality" was used pejoratively. I can only assume the person who used it was never incapacitated by illness at any time in their life. More strength to him if so.
No I came here to ask for advice. It was resolved after I posted here.Is it though? You came here to vent about it.
Sorry bud. You had the strength to go to the ER. You had the strength to send a text.
I don’t live alone. Never said I didI'm sorry you live a lone so there was no one else to call.
Two thoughts.
First, I think it is a good idea for a flight school or instructor with a stated cancellation policy to give a free ride on an illness no show. Once. Strict adherence on the first offense suggests (a) they are not worried about attrition and/or (b) are busy enough that if you cancelled, they would have been in a position to fill the slot.
Second, I understand you were really sick but, assuming the reasonableness of the policy (related to the first point) why is your illness their problem instead of yours?
{BTW, I have no official policy and don't charge for no shows, but your second time will be the last)
There are polarizing views on almost every "take responsibility" issue. Often the view is result-oriented. IOW, the people will be on one side when they like the result and on the other side when they don't like the result.Itneresting takes here; quite a polarizing topic.
Sorry, I was figuring there might be a reason someone else didn't make the call or send the text when you were too indisposed to do so.I don’t live alone. Never said I did
This was not my first post, and it was not asking for validation, it was asking for advice. It wasn’t a hole in my argument. Please explain to me how it was. I said that in all caps because he said he had been taught to keep from getting dehydrated. It is extremely hard or impossible to stay hydrated with a stomach virus, hence why I went to the ER. I was emphasizing that’s what I had. I never plan to be a first officer as I’m only doing sport pilot.To the OP - you need to step back from your emotions and ask yourself a few questions:
1. What is my end goal as a pilot?
If the end goal is the airlines or pretty much any type of transportation for hire, you absolutely need to learn to prioritize quickly letting someone know if you likely won’t be available for health reasons. Airline passengers are quite unhappy when flights are delayed.
2. How would I feel in a broke-ish instructor’s shoes in this situation? - because you might be that instructor in a few years…
3. Most of us have done this at some point, maybe not on a forum, but your posts and replies suggest to me that your first post, despite being posted as a question, was mostly seeking validation, rather than learning a different perspective. Are you willing to consider that sometimes your personal perspective could be wrong?
4. Most of us have had stomach viruses before. This isn’t something new or unique. Your reply to my post using ALL CAPS is internet for yelling… which makes it seem like you are pretty uptight with people who disagree with you or point out a hole in your argument. Is this something you want to display in a cockpit as a first officer?
Actually they got me back really quick as a matter of fact, and when sitting in the ER waiting room I couldn’t hold my head. That is absolutely not an exaggeration. It does not take “ZERO” effort to send a text.Terrible take. It takes zero effort to send a text message. ZERO. OP probably had plenty of time while sitting in the ER waiting room. It's literally just a lack of concern for inconveniencing the CFI and impacting their livelihood. "I didn't feel like it" is just about the crappiest response one could have for the situation.
Regardless of the out come I'm guessing that the OP will never make that mistake again ...![]()
I mean there was, but I just didn’t think of it I felt so badSorry, I was figuring there might be a reason someone else didn't make the call or send the text when you were too indisposed to do so.
...and that's understandable. I probably would have forgotten too. And I would have asked for forgiveness from the no-show fee. But I also would have understood if the answer was "no" because, after all, while it may not have been my fault, it was my problem.I mean there was, but I just didn’t think of it I felt so bad
If you had been scheduled to work on Saturday would you have notified your boss that you would be unable to show up? Would there have been repercussions if you no-showed and didn’t notify him?I mean there was, but I just didn’t think of it I felt so bad