I'm old enough to have seen them quite a few times fly in airshows. It was an iconic bird for sure!
I was lucky enough to attend a presentation by Dale Snodgrass at my local airport's pilots' association a few years back. Mostly the same stories you can hear in his many speeches available on youtube, but it was an honor to have heard them first-hand! Worth a search for his talks if you haven't seen or heard them. Some interesting stories I thought.
And on another note...I follow
Ward Carrol's youtube channel. He's a retired f-14 RIO. Don't think he's done much on the tomcat lately, but he's got some good tomcat info up on his channel as I recall.
One of my regrets is not following through on my conversations with recruiters as I was graduating college in late 1989. I was seriously thinking about trying to get into Navy flight school, and that would have been right about in the middle of it's time with the USN I believe....so who knows.... Although admittedly my primary interest at the time was USCG helicopters, still I was noodling the idea of trying to go navy instead, and I was talking with a Navy recruiter who sported wings of gold.