I loved being an airline pilot for pretty much the first 3-4 years. Then when COVID came things were not looking good. I was ready to pull the trigger then and was getting things lined up, but then it looked like demand was coming back faster than expected. I figured I would wait and got an instructor job at the regional which made me interested again.
But things got tougher as my daughter was getting older and my ex was and still is driving me crazy. Maybe she was the reason I started to dislike it more and more. Then last year got an interview out of the blue thinking I would never make it to the major airlines with COVID and I got the job. So basically a dream of mine since I was 20 basically does nothing anymore and I wish I could go back and change. Sorry I just have no one to talk to about this stuff so I vent sometimes. The hotels are the worse
The job definitely isn't what it was. When I started, the then "old timers" complained about it, and now, 20 years later, it's fallen even further. ALPA is right on the mark in this case. It's not a pilot shortage, but a shortage caused by the steady degradation of the profession in real terms. The real shortfall didn't start until contracts were slashed in the naughties (2005 ish), and sure enough, just after that was when the pipeline collapsed upon itself and hiring minimums went to near wet commerical hours. They've never recovered in real, current dollar terms, and the cost/benefit to most people just isn't there, especially when the cost of learning to fly has tripled or quadrupled in real dollar terms. Hassle factor has increased substantially.
This isn't just aviation. All of corporate America has been so enamored with labor arbitrage over the past 30 years, that the real value of wages and working conditions have degraded to the point they're nearly unrecognizable. Rather than invest a portion of the return to make jobs livable to encourage people to stick around with longevity and provide continuity to the enterprise, it's just dog-eat-dog to get to the lowest expense possible on the ledger. People are treated as a burden, not a resource.
Unionization helps blunt most of that. You're not held hostage to the administrative tyranny that befalls most middle class workers (sorry Joe, the computer says broken legs aren't covered). Sure, unions provide a common voice to negotiate, but more so, it provides a check and balance to most hairbrained schemes lower level managers can conjure up to advance themselves and leave the problems that they create to the next person.
At least you can turn your phone off on your day off. My next door neighbor works for BigCo. Makes about what I make. Has his own office, so he's not a cubical person. He's on his phone constantly on his days off and in the evenings, even when he's walking his dog. I asked him about it sharing beers one evening. He tells me that if he's not "available" 24/7 for phone and email, he gets dinged on his performance reviews. No extra money. Talk about theft of labor. Back in the day, you're time off was your time off. Business stopped at 5 and on the weekends. Nothing is that important. It's no wonder that GA has been in decline. When you're tied to work like that, who has time to fool around at the airport?
Hang in there. It gets better. With some seniority, you can get more time off, and that will let you start your side enterprise.