Hello !! I m new here ! I started my PPL 7 months ago, and when I decided to do this I knew it was important to choose an instructor that I will felt comfortable with. I visited several schools in my area, until finally I decided the school and the instructor. At the beginning is just felt the right place and instructor. But my situation now is that I start to feel frustrated with my instructor, with my training, and I beginning to think that he does not take his work seriously, and I have reached to a point that I am no longer able to enjoy my training, it is becoming a nightmare to have him sitting in the right seat ! - I have 45 hours of flight, and I had to fight to be able to do my first solo, and when I did it was great ! I was not afraid or worry are all , I finally I was enjoying flying without a person that is trying to push me down and making me feel bad about my performance. My landing were great, I felt just relax and focus. What bothers me the most about him, and I told him on several occasions, is that he has the constancy of teaching me everything in the cockpit, distract me constantly, which leads me to make small mistakes, nothing serious, but he gets angry with me every time I make a small mistake, and how not to make a mistake when you have a person talking to you all the time ! this make me stress.. I have suggested him: to please, if you have something to tell me write it down , and we can talk about it when we are on the ground. But he always gives me a defensive attitude, and tells me he can say whatever he wants ! Also what starts to annoy me too, is that he never tells me what we are going to do in the next class, and neither we talk about what we are going to do before flying, he did t make a plan for my training , steps to follow to get me where I want to go. 2 classes ago I have the "conversation'' I explain to him that I felling that I not making progress as I should, and I did t understand why we are not doing what I should be doing , then I make him a list, of the thinks that I need to do have my ppl, and the steps to follow to get there, and I ask him to please lets do what I really need to do, and focus just in that. His hands were shaking ! hahaha ( sorry about that ) I don't know what to do, if keep trying with this guy and make sure to keep him on the right direction, or change my instructor, I not confident that at this point we are going to be able to work together, but I not sure, maybe he change his attitude and decide to focus in my training instead of his training. My concern is that in the school that I m, all the instructors are friends they talk and support each other , so I m afraid that if I change to a new instructor he will have a wrong idea about me and I ll just keeping losing my time and money. Or worse , end it up doing all the same things again ! Any advice pleaseeee !!!