Try 4+ years in Del Rio and no end in sight, then tell me about Houston being undesirable. We cannot wait to be able to relocate to the Houston area or any other Texas metroplex. We love it there. The last 4 years have been a real hardship for my family. Spare me the " it's what you make of it" disingenuous platitude; I could go on for days about lack of medical facilities, vet care, pharmacies, educational outlets, employment for the spouse, access to airline service, decent restaurant or shopping. One hundred and fifty miles from all of it. I wouldn't wish this place on my worst enemy.
It's one thing to be on active duty and have a controlled tour that you know is gonna end in 4 years, but as a civil servant or reservist, it's simply untenable. We've reached our fatigue point. Houston area would be a great place to call home for us. We love the TX cost of living and what the Houston and I-35 corridor urban centers have to offer working families. Traffic is a manageable opportunity cost and for us at least would be worth the benefits to our family's quality of life.