I really don't have family anymore. I am the youngest in my family, my dad was the youngest and my grandfather was the youngest, so most of my family has died off, even most of my first cousins. My mom was the youngest in her family, so even that side is all gone.
I was single until I was 51, so I usually volunteered to work holidays so others could be with their family. And for double pay...
My wife is cooking a turkey, and this afternoon we will go to the employee housing and serve dinner to the employees on duty.
Usually on holidays I volunteer to be first call if a flight comes up. This time it turns out that all the pilots on duty today are single and want to fly. That means I have a rare day off. Usually on holidays the flights are for either a car accident injury or family dispute. A shovel to the head is most common on the reservation.
My wife is from the Philippines and they do not celebrate a thanksgiving as we do. They start Christmas decorations in October. (Yes, our tree and lights are already up) Thanksgiving is new to her, but she really enjoys it. She is what I am thankful for. She is a real blessing in my life. I am so lucky to be married to her.
I used to be envious of large families during holiday time. Still am a little. But I accept that I am from a small family. I actually enjoy the peace and solitude I have during this time. It is even better now that I can share it with my wife.
So I wish all a happy Thanksgiving weekend, safe travels, clear skies and strong tailwinds, may your pleasures be many and troubles be few, and we all pray for a safe return for those that are in harms way so that we may sleep safely at night.
Good night and God bless......