This is a small part of why I don't fly formation, but there is more to that story than just this. This story is just what lead me to decline if someone asks me to participate in a multiple plane flight (not formation) unless I know them well and have flown with them often.
This situation was that I happened to be flying a dog rescue with another pilot. He did all the coordination and asked me to fly my lance to pick up a total of 21 dogs between our two planes. He insisted I meet him at his airport so that his crew could help prepare my plane to carry the dogs safely and without damage to the plane, and that we depart together to pick up the dogs.
The first problem started when I called and let him know I would be a few minutes late because my field was still IFR. It was clearing quickly and I could leave soon, but I'd be 10 or 15 minutes later than we agreed. He argued with me "aren't you IFR rated", "yes I am, but I'm not going to fly IMC to save 10 minutes on a dog rescue flight. Sorry, it's not worth it, I'll leave as soon as I can." He was not happy with that, and that's how the day began. I arrived 10 minutes later than we had agreed.
Then he tells me he wants a pilot friend of his to ride along with me so she could get experience in a different plane. His attitude about this did not set very well with me either, but I like flying with different people so I agreed. So I was flying with someone I'd never met and had no idea what their experience level was.
She was pleasant and other than being too chatty during my takeoff checklist, which caused me to miss closing and locking the door, was not an issue with the flight at all, so she was not relevant except that I wanted to circle back and land and re-run the checklist rather than have a relative stranger closing and latching my door in flight.
Anyway, we arrive where the dogs were some time after the "mission leader" did due to my returning to close the door (and my plane is slower). Which upset him. At that point we promptly sat and waited for 3 hours for the dogs to be ready to go..... Not an issue for me, but why is he pressuring me on time when I was not the one holding up the proceedings?
Once the dogs were ready I started loading up and prepping. The "mission leader" approached me to do a bunch of calculations to decide when we were going to depart. I looked at him like he was crazy and said "I'm going to depart when I feel I am ready to safely make the flight". He wanted us to depart together and arrive at a specific time back at our delivery point, so we had to hold to hit that mark. There was going to be weather later in the day that I wanted to beat, so I had no interest in meeting some arbitrary arrival time. We were in planes that had different cruise speeds and I want to do this safe and VFR and without stressing myself out any more than having 15 dogs in my plane is already going to stress me. After a bit of argument, I ignored him and left when I felt comfortable leaving. (and ironically he still beat me back)
My lesson learned is that you're going to be pressured into doing stupid crap when hitching your wagon to someone else's plan. I'm not gonna do it again.
This situation was that I happened to be flying a dog rescue with another pilot. He did all the coordination and asked me to fly my lance to pick up a total of 21 dogs between our two planes. He insisted I meet him at his airport so that his crew could help prepare my plane to carry the dogs safely and without damage to the plane, and that we depart together to pick up the dogs.
The first problem started when I called and let him know I would be a few minutes late because my field was still IFR. It was clearing quickly and I could leave soon, but I'd be 10 or 15 minutes later than we agreed. He argued with me "aren't you IFR rated", "yes I am, but I'm not going to fly IMC to save 10 minutes on a dog rescue flight. Sorry, it's not worth it, I'll leave as soon as I can." He was not happy with that, and that's how the day began. I arrived 10 minutes later than we had agreed.
Then he tells me he wants a pilot friend of his to ride along with me so she could get experience in a different plane. His attitude about this did not set very well with me either, but I like flying with different people so I agreed. So I was flying with someone I'd never met and had no idea what their experience level was.
She was pleasant and other than being too chatty during my takeoff checklist, which caused me to miss closing and locking the door, was not an issue with the flight at all, so she was not relevant except that I wanted to circle back and land and re-run the checklist rather than have a relative stranger closing and latching my door in flight.
Anyway, we arrive where the dogs were some time after the "mission leader" did due to my returning to close the door (and my plane is slower). Which upset him. At that point we promptly sat and waited for 3 hours for the dogs to be ready to go..... Not an issue for me, but why is he pressuring me on time when I was not the one holding up the proceedings?
Once the dogs were ready I started loading up and prepping. The "mission leader" approached me to do a bunch of calculations to decide when we were going to depart. I looked at him like he was crazy and said "I'm going to depart when I feel I am ready to safely make the flight". He wanted us to depart together and arrive at a specific time back at our delivery point, so we had to hold to hit that mark. There was going to be weather later in the day that I wanted to beat, so I had no interest in meeting some arbitrary arrival time. We were in planes that had different cruise speeds and I want to do this safe and VFR and without stressing myself out any more than having 15 dogs in my plane is already going to stress me. After a bit of argument, I ignored him and left when I felt comfortable leaving. (and ironically he still beat me back)
My lesson learned is that you're going to be pressured into doing stupid crap when hitching your wagon to someone else's plan. I'm not gonna do it again.
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