I grew up in a family business of power line construction. The assumption was that I would join the company as a 3rd generation lineman and owner.
When I was in Jr. High I watched this goofy frenchman sailing around in a boat named Calypso, doing this scuba stuff. I decided then I wanted to be a marine biologist. Got my scuba cert card, but diving in South Dakota didn't offer a lot of exciting marine life, unless you consider spotting good trout fishing spots.
I got a ride in a Baron from a neighbor when I was 12, and knew I wanted to fly. I pursued the Air Force Academy, but glasses precluded a pilot slot. So, in 18 year old logic, I decided electrical engineering with tuition coming from my own pocket made more sense than the Academy as a non-pilot. 18 year old logic ... yeah.
My freshman year ended with twice as many music credits as engineering credits, so another reassessment was in order. The Navy recruiter I had talked to in High School called, we chatted, I said "guarantee me electronics and a flying billet and I'll do it." He did, I did, and anchors aweigh, my boy ...
9 years of Navy, avionics tech, air intercept controller and aircrewman in the E-2 Hawkeye was a mix of all the good and all the bad that the Navy could offer. There was always that old assumption that I was going to join the family business still looming, and after I got out of the Navy, I went back to South Dakota and started building power line again, just in time for a lovely South Dakota winter. Standing on a pole at 20 below with 40mph winds made me realize that this wasn't what I wanted to do.
A friend from the Navy put me in contact with the contractors that supported the software that I used in the E-2, so I found myself a software test engineer. I had the old GI bill and figured if I was working with software, I might as well get a degree in it. I finished my bachelor's in Computer Science, got a Master's in Software Engineering. "When I got here I couldn't spell engineer, and now I are one."
Still don't know that I want to be when I grow up, but for now, here I am, building databases for avgas money.