I remember when I was a kid, my dad used to have this large folding table he would set up every year and it would be covered in papers. My mom would tell me to leave him alone for the next week because he'd be in a bad mood.
He used to do the taxes... for the farm mind you so lots of stuff to track and consider manually. No software, no accountant. He just had the blank forms, instruction booklets, notebooks, pens, and a basic calculator. I can't even imagine...
Then the year my mother died after a long battle with cancer he got audited... basically because while all that was going on he wasn't exactly focusing on the paperwork. A few years later he got into a huge fight with them because they lost a check he sent and wouldn't accept the copy of the canceled check that someone cashed as proof. Turned out to be some huge case of fraud carried out by a company the IRS had contracted out to process returns.
After years of doing returns by hand and these incidents(not to mention further and further jaw dropping as to what he had to pay each year) he became a man on a mission. Every time he met a new person the first thing he said after "hello" was "Have you heard about the bill before congress to eliminate the IRS and replace it with a federal sales tax?"
I got introduced to tax returns at a young age too... at some point he decided this tax prep software might be a good way to go. The only problem was he was completely computer illiterate. So I spent many grueling hours as a child every year for a few years sitting in front of a computer trying to explain to my dad why we weren't to the part of the program where you enter the thing he was wanting to enter yet and both of us getting angry and yelling at each other.
Now here I am and my father is gone. 3 years gone and I've only recently finished wrangling(I hope) with that horrible monolith of an agency over his estate... and currently await the long overdue refund they owe me.
I cannot properly articulate the degree to which I hate the IRS. I'd go on the same quest my father did but I just don't believe it will go anywhere. Most people don't have the record keeping and reporting burden I deal with. Most people don't file quarterly and they get refunds. They have maybe 5 or 6 pieces of paper to hand the $50 1hr tax preparer and they're done. Most people just have no clue how much this can suck. I'd say more but I can't without getting political so I'll leave it there.