Congrats on the new addition, kids are great............most of the time!

I wouldn't be too concerned about the birth occurring during Oshkosh, you aren't a doctor are you? I mean you've already contributed all you're going to contribute to the big event until it's time to change a diaper. So, go to OSH, relax and let the professionals handle it!!
If you choose to take this advice, please make sure that you also look for alternative living quarters before you leave for OSH!
For a second there I thought you were serious.
Everyone's got a different opinion on what they want to do. I was very involved, caught the baby, etc. Doctor pretty much just watched and said "Yep, looking good." I wouldn't trade it for anything, but it's not for everyone. I wasn't convinced that's what I'd want to do, but when the time came, I'm glad I did.
If it comes early, I will at least try to make it for a day. Between her mother and my mother, I'm sure I won't be needed too much the first few weeks. And what is this diaper changing that you speak of? I have cat litter duty for 9 months, so I'm going to lean on that to get out of diaper changing for as long as I can.
Actually, changing diapers is one of those things that I found to be extremely enjoyable, even though I didn't expect it to be. Dirty diapers mean that your kid's body is functioning as it's supposed to, which is a wonderful blessing. Besides, you end up wondering "How the **** did you get poo up your neck?!", a scientific question that still boggles my mind.
As to your question of the reaction: With the first kid, it was a bit of shock before the excitement kicked in since we were just going about things the old fashioned way and didn't expect a pregnancy so quickly. The second part after the shock/excitement was calling my boss: "What do we have with turbines? We're going to Newfoundland tomorrow."
Interestingly, when my wife called to tell me she was pregnant, I was on the phone with another friend who was announcing that his wife was pregnant. My wife called and I thought "I can call her back, this is important!" When she called again I figured what she had to say was important, too. Oops.
This time, the shock was muffled simply because we've been through the rodeo before. But then when we went to the doctor for the first ultrasound, and the tech said she thought she saw triplets (about 1:1800 chance since we were using no fertility treatments), we were both quite shocked. I thought "Time for a 421." I also thought "She's probably wrong." Sure enough, she was wrong, but still there were twins in there! Still are twins in there, technically. That was major shock and excitement.
But we should be able to get by without upgrading to a 421. Darn.
