Greebo
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...Chicago cafe insists on children using "inside voices" when visiting.
Some parents bristle, but others applaud call for proper etiquitte:
http://www.nytimes.com/2005/11/09/national/09bakery.html
As a result, my parents trusted my behavior in grown up restaurants enough that they would take me to them when I was 6, and also to plays and concerts. I was bored out of my skull at that age, but I was QUIET.
Personally, I think it's about time our stores and shops started enforcing behavior codes - especially restaurants. I don't expect kids in a McDonalds to behave, but my ex-wife and I and another couple went to The Melting Pot one evening, definately NOT a kids restaurant (bar in the front, and 300 degree hot oil on the table for fondue) and there was a group there that brought 6 10 year olds there for a birthday party and they were just screaming and running around and the management did nothing. Finally a frustrated patron shouted out "SHUT UP ALREADY" (about 30 seconds ahead of me) and the outrage of the selfish parents was quickly killed by the applause of everyone else in the restaurant.
Small kids who can't control their behavior don't have a place in adult restaurants. Get a baby sitter. Your desire to have a night out doesn't give you the right to ruin everyone elses evening by bringing your unruly kids.
Or better yet - TEACH YOUR KIDS TO BEHAVE AT THE TABLE AT HOME! I have friends who have four kids - 9, 7, 5 and 2, and they are expected to behave at the table at home, and they do - yes, even the 2 year old as much as she understands it - she knows that if she acts up when eating, her high-chair gets turned around so she can't see the rest of the family.
And guess what - those kids? I'll go to a classy restaurant with them ANY DAY because they know how to behave.
So for me, my hats off to Dan McCauley, owner of A Taste of Heaven in Chicago, and every other restauranteur who insists that children of all ages behave and use their inside voices when visiting their shops.
Some parents bristle, but others applaud call for proper etiquitte:
http://www.nytimes.com/2005/11/09/national/09bakery.html
Now I know small kids are hard to control, but you know what, by the time I was 4 I understood some basic rules, and one rule was when you were at the table, you used a quiet voice.excerpt... said:CHICAGO, Nov. 8 - Bridget Dehl shushed her 21-month-old son, Gavin, then clapped a hand over his mouth to squelch his tiny screams amid the Sunday brunch bustle. When Gavin kept yelping "yeah, yeah, yeah," Ms. Dehl whisked him from his highchair and out the door.
http://www.nytimes.com/2005/11/09/national/09bakery.html#secondParagraph
How should restaurants and coffee houses respond to parents whose children are unruly?
Right past the sign warning the cafe's customers that "children of all ages have to behave and use their indoor voices when coming to A Taste of Heaven," and right into a nasty spat roiling the stroller set in Chicago's changing Andersonville neighborhood.
As a result, my parents trusted my behavior in grown up restaurants enough that they would take me to them when I was 6, and also to plays and concerts. I was bored out of my skull at that age, but I was QUIET.
Personally, I think it's about time our stores and shops started enforcing behavior codes - especially restaurants. I don't expect kids in a McDonalds to behave, but my ex-wife and I and another couple went to The Melting Pot one evening, definately NOT a kids restaurant (bar in the front, and 300 degree hot oil on the table for fondue) and there was a group there that brought 6 10 year olds there for a birthday party and they were just screaming and running around and the management did nothing. Finally a frustrated patron shouted out "SHUT UP ALREADY" (about 30 seconds ahead of me) and the outrage of the selfish parents was quickly killed by the applause of everyone else in the restaurant.
Small kids who can't control their behavior don't have a place in adult restaurants. Get a baby sitter. Your desire to have a night out doesn't give you the right to ruin everyone elses evening by bringing your unruly kids.
Or better yet - TEACH YOUR KIDS TO BEHAVE AT THE TABLE AT HOME! I have friends who have four kids - 9, 7, 5 and 2, and they are expected to behave at the table at home, and they do - yes, even the 2 year old as much as she understands it - she knows that if she acts up when eating, her high-chair gets turned around so she can't see the rest of the family.
And guess what - those kids? I'll go to a classy restaurant with them ANY DAY because they know how to behave.
So for me, my hats off to Dan McCauley, owner of A Taste of Heaven in Chicago, and every other restauranteur who insists that children of all ages behave and use their inside voices when visiting their shops.