My main advice will be around washers and dryers. Buy a top load washer. You can get more capacity for your dollar, they don't require the "high efficiency" detergent. Also, If you buy a front loading washer, you'll need to spend another $200 on the platform to raise it to a height that doesn't force you to your knees to dig that last sock out of the back corner when you're unloading it.
On washers, dryers, and dishwashers, I'm of the school that says you need simple features, not 1,001 different features/cycles. Hot/warm/cold, delicate/normal are the only settings a washing machine needs. A dryer is similar regular/delicate/fluff and time/moisture. It ain't hard, and they charge a lot for those unused features.
Regarding the dishwasher, find something quiet. It makes the kitchen a much nicer place if you're in there and the dishwasher is running.