His words are irrelevant to your words. Each person is responsible for their own. You choose how to react to the words of others, they don't force it on you. That is what I mean with relevance.
It just reflects poorly when we think denigration is humor. That you, and many others, don't recognize this as denigration points to other, even greater, problems in our social fabric.
A big part of humor like it or not is poking fun at people.
AFV is all dads getting hit in the nuts with baseballs, kids slipping on ice, and crap like that.
That's kiddie humor.
Grown up humor is no different and there is nothing wrong with it.
It is in poor taste to pick on soft targets but I feel Captain in particular is one of the posters heavily into bantering with others. He is not a soft target. Meaning you don't pick on sick, weak, uninterested. He and a lot of others are a peer in the gooftroop.
Do I think Ed Fred really thinks I am gay because of his last thread? I mean, I kind a hope. I have been to his page and he is cute.
He is having fun and I am an easy target and I think it is funny. I like being an easy target. It is really funny to target yourself.
The difference is true denigration is not humor but hate and I don't see much true denigration here, I see what I refer to as banter which is faux denigration designed to be jovial.
Its like those "Yo mama is so fat jokes"
I don't think they even really know each others' mommas.
I suspect they aren't really harboring hateful feelings towards someones mama.
Whatever. Something is lost in translation.
I will stick to how to time my flare threads moving forward I guess.