I have read this thread with great interest. It's both amusing and instructive to read what employees want and expect from their employers.
In my first business, I went way over the top with employee recognition. I had come from a corporate background where employees were "human resources" to be used like coal, or any other fossil fuel, so I was intensely aware of how bitter that treatment left me. I resolved to be the ideal boss.
So, we did lots of fun things, like hiring a limo to take everyone to the Christmas party. And the party included open bar, a meal at the finest restaurant, all after seeing "A Christmas Carol" at a ritzy live theater.
And gifts. Lots of recognition gifts.
What did this generosity get me? Resentment that I could "afford" to do such things for my employees, both from contractors and suppliers. One of my primary customers noted it, after one of my idiot employees raved to them about the "lavish" Christmas party. They, of course, used this against me in price negotiations later on... Lesson learned.
Did these spiffs buy me any employee loyalty? Did they work harder or treat me any better? Not that I could discern.
In my second business, I scaled everything back, and just did little parties at Christmas, with gifts and hand written notes of appreciation for a job well done.
What did this get me? Nothing. I don't recall ever hearing a thank you, nor did I see any qualitative or quantitative improvement in their efforts. But I did it for years, anyway.
My third business was our first hotel, and a whole new game. I again went over the top on parties, with lavish catered meals and gifts. Everyone had a nice time, but did it get me anything, as an employer? Other than making me feel good, and draining my checkbook, I'm afraid the answer is "Nope". I still faced the same headaches, heart aches, and liability that comes along with hiring and firing people.
So, I'm now in my fourth business. Since the Great Recession, our funds have been greatly depleted, so the days of hiring limo rides are behind us, I'm afraid. Our staff isn't suffering, however, and we do little things for them when we can. Our Christmas parties are pretty low key, and I now favor shorts and sandals on the beach over black tie affairs -- and everyone seems happy.
After all these years, do I think for a minute that my good nature and fine treatment of my employees buys me anything but a warm fuzzy feeling in the pit of my stomach? Ah, nope. As an employer, I have been screwed by employees every possible way, from laziness to outright theft, from quitting without notice to personal slander -- and everything in between. Much of this was done by people you would never DREAM could treat anyone so shabbily.
Until you own your own business you would never guess how hard it is to find good help. After 22 years of it, I now fully understand the businesses that treat their employees like "human resources".
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