FYI: I removed the kitty-litter and Oil-Dri, and it looked OK. Not great, but... better. Then when I drenched it in dawn soap and water, the oil spot looked really dark again (bad), and that was the case even after drying it off for a few days. So I threw down more oil-dri yesterday to sort of soak up whatever oil/moisture and and will try again. This time washing with simple clean, since I bought that as well.
What seems to help the most is just crushing the oil-dri into the ground and grinding it against the concrete with my foot. It'd take about 10 hours to do the whole thing like that, so hoping that's not necessary.
Will post a photo when I go sweep up the current batch of oil-dri.