The thing that is really surprising to me is that chicks don't congregate around pilots. I mean, if you stop to think about it, if someone can fly and owns their own aircraft, it is likely that they have at least average if not above average intellect and an above average socioeconomic position. Moreover, it is less likely that a pilot has problems with substance abuse, gambling, or mental illness than John Q (can't get, keep, or afford a medical with any of that). Granted, the pilot can be a total head case, but is that really any more likely in a population of pilots as in the population at large?
Such phenomena have not happened to me, nor have I seen them happen to other pilots I know, even the good-looking ones. Talk about looking for love in all the wrong places.