I like India. I am not too impressed with Bangalore as it is really a business area and not too culturally rich.
I take it you will be flying into Dehli?
The hardest part of any India visit is the trip, it just is far. 16 hours non-stop form Chicago to Dehli with weird times of departure. The other way to go is through Europe but even then that can give you some long lay overs.
Some pointers about India
1. Everything is up for negotiation. You barter EVERYTHING!! Before you get into a cab make sure that you have decided upon a price. Anytime you buy something you need to barter. Paying at a maximum half of what their initial asking price is close to tourist fair.
Cannot agree more. While I've had luck with people who treated me "like a local", in general, be prepared to negotiate.
2. Stuff is dirty there. Do NOT eat fruits with the skin on, nor drink tap water, nor eat fresh vegetables. You will get Dehli belly
What hotel will you be in? That's my x-factor. I'll eat everything, and drink the tap water, in the Leela or Oberoi in Bangalore. That said, even if you are ultra paranoid, you'll most likely get sick on your first trip. Pack baby wipes and a few Nature's Valley granola bars and some Clif's Builder's Bars, in case your GI track flips out.
3. People are poor. Poor like you have never seen before in your life. YOu will see lepers on the streets. Be compassionate but also be aware of your own safety, giving money to beggars can get you into trouble.
Everyone has their own opinion on this. My view comes from some anthropologists, locals I trust, and expats who have been in-country for years. In general, I do not give to many beggars, but I will buy something off of the kids who are selling things on the street.
4. The people are wonderful and friendly. English is common, learn a few things about their history and culture and pay it the respect it deserves and you will be treated royally.
Culturally speaking, Asia is FAR nicer than many Western countries -- but India and Japan are my two favorite locations "for the people".
5. If you want adventure take the train from Dehli to Bangalore. Real adventure starts in 3rd class.
That's some serious adventure, Scott! I like your style.
6. Bangalore is populated with educated middle class people. It is the tech hub of the country, it is not real India, but it is safe and interesting in a Disney Land sort of way.
I go back and forth with this. It's urban India, analgous to Silicon Valley/SFO in terms of education and likely industry of employ. Delhi has a Washington, DC feel (lots of academic types). Will you go to Guragon? I was slated to go there before I moved on to different pastures.
7. Get to the airports early. Lines and disorganization are the norm.
8. Make sure your VISA is in order before you leave here. Nothing worse than Asian bureaucracy carried out with British precision.
9. Restaurants are plentiful and basically safe as long as you get cooked food. Expect lamb instead of beef if there is meat.
You will see bureaucracy like you have never seen before in your life. Scott's #8 captures that better than I could ever articulate it. Your mind will be blown with sheer scale of it all. Do not trifle with your visa or other docs -- make sure EVERYTHING is up to snuff. And, if you can, get a 10 year visa -- it's worth every penny!
On the lamb comment -- you may also end up with water buffalo instead of beef. It's quite delicious, but if you find yourself, two weeks in, jonesing hard for a hamburger, and you get a water buffalo burger, you will be SORELY disappointed if you do not realign your expectations (can you guess that I made this mistake?)
Take a moment and really explore Bangalore. Go down to Commercial Road and walk around the market. Take an autorickshaw. Have dinner at the Oberoi; they have a Keralan restaurant unlike any other place I have eaten in the world. One night, have some locals take you down to Corner House for a Magnum Fudge ice cream.
I love India -- and I hope you do too. I can recommend a pile of reading material for you before you depart -- it's worth the effort to learn about such an enchanting and magical country!
Cheers,
-Andrew