I was informed by an auto engineer that part of the reason these batteries are so unstable is because they have very specific charging requirements. A slight overcharge when the battery is at full capacity, and even small variances in voltage and/or amps while charging are all causes of the batteries overheating and then catching on fire.
A plane and RC builder who uses Lith Ion batteries told me that he's never had an issue, but he always worries about them, and doesn't use them as much anymore because of the potential dangers.
The WSJ kind of backed up this story when they reported this. I don't remember the exact wording they used, but it was something along the lines of these batteries being unstable if the proper charging conditions weren't met, and Boeing had experienced difficulties earlier getting the charging and computer systems to cooperate.
Just what I heard/read...if that's all true, I wouldn't put them in my car, let alone a plane. My phone is a different story. Small enough, low power, and not immediately risking my life. I'm pretty sure I'd feel the heat and smell something before my cell phone bursts into flames.
And I didn't look into it, but are these the same batteries that automakers are experiencing fires with in their hybrids? Yikes.