I should define why I think 1) is true:
If I wave my hand behind a GIANT block of glass, and you look at it through the glass, you will likely see it happen after it did, while a person looking at it from an angle, not through the glass at all (ie - around the glass) would see it move realtime. That means, done properly, he could describe it to me before I see it.
That means, to me, at least, somehow, and I can't quite grasp it - that light can be in 2 different places at the same time....
There is no "realtime." There is just relativity.
Consider if it was sound. The thunder is only not "realtime" if you're far enough away that you can see the lightning flash before you hear the thunder. Even the guy who gets hit experiences a time delay, it's just measured in microseconds.



