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I am one of those anal types that has to plan out everything. I'm not sure if there is a way to plan this particular thing but I need to be more mentally prepared than I am.
Many of you have lost friends because of aviation accidents; I really haven't yet. I have read a lot about how people suffered serious emotional trauma because of such losses, and decided to quit flying altogether because of a death. (I am starting in another sport that is really risky, and there are a lot of people talking about a recent death is what reminded me of this topic.)
Anyway, what can we do to prepare ourselves for such losses? (assuming I don't bite it before any of my flying friends) When I even casually contemplate the possibility of losing any one of these good friends, it sort of freezes me, I can't think about it anymore. I want to go into this heads up should it ever happen - and with a 'good attitude' if thats possible. I won't be able to help any one else if I am an emotional cripple at the time.
I don't want to lose a friend but there is little I can do to change that. I also don't want to then sacrifice a hobby that gives me great happiness.
Any thoughts are welcome.
Many of you have lost friends because of aviation accidents; I really haven't yet. I have read a lot about how people suffered serious emotional trauma because of such losses, and decided to quit flying altogether because of a death. (I am starting in another sport that is really risky, and there are a lot of people talking about a recent death is what reminded me of this topic.)
Anyway, what can we do to prepare ourselves for such losses? (assuming I don't bite it before any of my flying friends) When I even casually contemplate the possibility of losing any one of these good friends, it sort of freezes me, I can't think about it anymore. I want to go into this heads up should it ever happen - and with a 'good attitude' if thats possible. I won't be able to help any one else if I am an emotional cripple at the time.
I don't want to lose a friend but there is little I can do to change that. I also don't want to then sacrifice a hobby that gives me great happiness.
Any thoughts are welcome.