my stepson is just not well. At 28 he has spent the last 10 years in addiction. We are moving my wife’s mother into senior living and he is acting up because we won’t let him continue to live in her home, which we are going to sell. He has probably made about 15k total in his employment stints over the last decade but he thinks we should rent to him. He cant find a roommate because he is not stable enough and always broke. Bottom line is you generally cannot force mental health care on someone who needs, with specific exceptions. It doesn’t bother me - although i do have some sympathy for him -but I feel bad for my wife. Its hard on her. Just venting.