EAA 14 at Brown is a good group. Great lunch every Saturday, Young Eagles (2nd Sat I think) and an organized fly-out once per month (3rd Sat usually).
Friday Fly Days every 1st Friday at Gillespie Field Cafe, usually many planes and some hot rods.
The YakCave is at Gillespie as well.
For Hangar Homes check out Speer Field at Gillespie, not conventional homes so mortgage will be tough (county land on a 30 yr lease, first period is up in about 10 or 15 years I think and they are not sure how County will go).
SoCal is a great environment for pilots.
Catalina Airport BBQ this Saturday at 5:00 I think.
Warbirds West Air Museum Pancake Breakfast every Saturday and Movie Night in the hangar every Tuesday at Gillespie.
MCAS Miramar Airshow is coming up first weekend in October, best in the West.
IAC Chapter 36 San Diego Hammerheads have their Fall Aerobatic Contest at Borrego (L08) in October as well.
'Gimp