I'm not sure what kind of panel you are working with, but as a guy who does the majority of his flying in VMC (and about an even split of IFR and VFR), I still reference the VSI a whole lot. For pitch trim, it will give you a heads up if you are not trimmed out for level flight. Use the ball to trim out the rudder/rudders, and then use your personal annoyance factor to trim out the ailerons once the others are squared away. This should keep your basic airwork honest. At least that is what I do. Of all the airplane types I have flown, I still have yet to find one that is truly "hands off" when trimmed up, but it should be very close to hands off.....at least to the extent that you can stop flying for a little bit to do other things in the cockpit. Bumpy air, wind shear, gusts, etc all will cause you to chase that perfect trim job, but you should certainly work towards being at the 95% solution for just practical flying. At least that is my .02
Oh yeah, I don't trim during maneuvering/"aerobatic" flight. Control forces are just too dynamic to really do you any good there IMHO, unless you are in like a sustained 60 deg AOB turn or something for a long time.