We were doing this for a few years but we figured out that we all have the junk we need to get by in life. We switched to adopting a needy family instead and it just feels better every year we can do it.
We still do some little stocking stuffer things but dinner sits really well during the football/dinner coma in the living room with family, knowing someone else's home is happier and maybe they didn't have to forego meals to get the kids stuff they needed or wanted.
This year our local county adopt-a-family office still had 27 families last week, all 5 or more people, seeking assistance. With a bad economy a lot of folks are really hurting.
I don't mention it for recognition or any sense of a holier-than-thou attitude. I just mention it because for years and years we just did the gifts more out of habit than anything.
When my brother in law first recommended that we give the family adoption thing a try, it seemed awkward at first but it's grown on all of us, and we stopped getting those awful sweaters you put in a closet and never wear and silly stuff we don't need. We still take care of family first, if someone needs something we're all on it. But in normal years, our habits changed.
Definitely think about the folks in your own 'hood wishing they could get the kids something besides dinner and maybe some WalMart clothes for school. It's a sucky time of year to be broke and "in the system".
Y'all also know from my short time with SZ turned on that I'm one of those big mean fiscal conservative evil people, too. I apparently want all poor people to die in the street according to the media, you know. My TV says so. And everything you see on TV is true.
Money where my mouth is. Want community? You gotta behave like a community. Including helping out folks in it who need it most. Not waiting around for some inefficient government trickle down system to help them.
Oops, sorry, got a little excited there.
Give it a shot. Talk to the family about pooling resources and helping some mom and dad who are often just down the road, but out of sight and out of mind.
"True Spirit of Christmas" and all that wishy-washy stuff of you're into that.
I wore my Grinch necktie to the first Christmas party last night. Gotta keep my Nasty-evil-Conservative-is-going-to-eat-your-babies image up.
Bah Humbug. And Merry Christmas.