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Concerned parent
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I have a child who just turned 3. Based on an issue with delayed speech, which he'd been making rapid progress on lately, and seeing him being excited and doing a little happy dance for a couple minutes his doctor wants him to be evaluated for autism.
Fortunately we have a bit of a reprieve here, I'm told the waiting list is about a year long and his doctor wants him on the list now so he can get in earlier. Now, if he really does have a problem and needs help then he needs it. However, other than his language skills being a bit behind(and they're rapidly catching up) he acts like a pretty typical 3yo boy to me. I'm concerned about a premature diagnosis putting a label on him that may effect him for life.
As I said, we've probably got a year to observe and evaluate. If he's talking in complete sentences and functioning fine as a then 4 year old I intend to not let him get evaluated. If he's still having issues, well.. that's another story.
The tl;dr question which is the main part that would apply here is what would an early childhood autism spectrum diagnosis mean for his prospects of becoming a pilot? I fly and he already shows interest in planes. I know it's really early but the thought of having to tell him he can never become a pilot when he gets older just makes me sick. Hopefully, it never ends up being an issue and this is all worry for nothing... but if it's not what are the prospects?
Fortunately we have a bit of a reprieve here, I'm told the waiting list is about a year long and his doctor wants him on the list now so he can get in earlier. Now, if he really does have a problem and needs help then he needs it. However, other than his language skills being a bit behind(and they're rapidly catching up) he acts like a pretty typical 3yo boy to me. I'm concerned about a premature diagnosis putting a label on him that may effect him for life.
As I said, we've probably got a year to observe and evaluate. If he's talking in complete sentences and functioning fine as a then 4 year old I intend to not let him get evaluated. If he's still having issues, well.. that's another story.
The tl;dr question which is the main part that would apply here is what would an early childhood autism spectrum diagnosis mean for his prospects of becoming a pilot? I fly and he already shows interest in planes. I know it's really early but the thought of having to tell him he can never become a pilot when he gets older just makes me sick. Hopefully, it never ends up being an issue and this is all worry for nothing... but if it's not what are the prospects?