flyingcheesehead
Touchdown! Greaser!
After the Seneca/Multiengine threads, in talking with various people, I have a growing concern about the way we perceive ourselves as safer pilots on this board. With that in mind, I'm pulling this portion into a new thread. Please read this in its entirety and especially the large, bold portion of the last quote. Hopefully we can re-evaluate ourselves and truly become safer.
Yes, he will, just as I have. I'm pretty sure he's read the thread in question now, based on something he said in an e-mail to me. I'm also quite sure that the ensuing argument would be completely, utterly, hopelessly pointless.
It is the least important question in this instance because we've been over it and beat the dead horse enough. The whole reason for the additional post is that I had many questions about the airplane that didn't get answered because the thread was overwhelmed by the "you're stupid" posts.
The descriptions I've read from most people are about as close to the opposite of how he is that you* can get. He does NOT have an "it's OK" attitude. I don't know how y'all can be so judgmental without knowing the guy, basing your* entire opinion on a n00b's description of one incident which you* don't have all the details of and weren't there for.
* All the you's are all a collective "you" and not directed at Dr. B.
I've been thinking about darn near nothing else since. I haven't flown since. I've re-evaluated it over and over again. We had the plane reserved for another day and a half, Joe was reserved for another day and a half, we had a ride and a room at McGuire's Resort and an excellent A&P waiting for us back at CAD. We had set everything up specifically to avoid get-there-itis and we made a series of decisions without any pressure to continue.
I've had several additional conversations with my CFI about the issue. I've learned a lot about the airplane from him, from folks here, other people, and other research. Only one thing (Henning's ice-in-the-pill post) made me doubt things, and I've since found that was not the problem and the symptoms did not indicate it.
Unfortunately, while my intention was to learn about the airplane, I instead learned an awful lot about this board and online communities in general. Having been on the Internet since 1993 and on various other online communities back into the 80's, I thought I had a handle on how people act online. However, it seems that we in the aviation community are just a bit worse than the norm.
We post about stupid pilot tricks all the time here, and we ridicule pilots about their idiotic mistakes all the time. It didn't occur to me how very unhealthy of an attitude that is to have until I got an e-mail from a pilot friend yesterday about this very same issue.
Read the following and think about how we treat many accidents on this board:
What I've really learned is that things are different when it's your own butt in the seat. With everything I have learned from many sources since, if I knew everything then that I do now, I would still have made the trip. Sure, you can try to be nice to me and say it was my CFI's fault because he was the PIC. But, I was the one who decided to stay in the seat, who decided to get in that seat in the first place with a CFI who I trust not because he's got letters after his name, but because he has earned my trust time and time again. Had I felt the smallest shred of doubt about the successful outcome of the flight, especially the overwater portion, I'd have turned the plane around. It was, after all, MY hands on the controls.
Am I done thinking about this particular issue? Far from it. My next stop will be in the office of the flight school manager, who is a DPE and has more hours than anyone here, and probably more than most of us combined. This learning opportunity is certainly far from over, but I am finished with the particular incident here - I will be listening to those who have experience with the airplane and actually know the people involved.
As much as I respect many folks here, the fact that y'all can be so absolutely sure of how awful my CFI must be and exactly what decision you'd have made in the same situation after hearing a not-very-well-written account of the incident from a total newbie in the airplane leads me to believe that every one of us needs to take a long hard look at the large bold statement in the quoted passage above and reflect upon it for a while.
bbchien said:Your CFI may be a great equipment operator but has a hole in his judgement. And if he wants to debate it, let him post here. He'll get demolished.
Yes, he will, just as I have. I'm pretty sure he's read the thread in question now, based on something he said in an e-mail to me. I'm also quite sure that the ensuing argument would be completely, utterly, hopelessly pointless.
No, I'm afraid it is the MOST important question.
It is the least important question in this instance because we've been over it and beat the dead horse enough. The whole reason for the additional post is that I had many questions about the airplane that didn't get answered because the thread was overwhelmed by the "you're stupid" posts.
Because he has the potential to remain your mentor and you will acquire his "it's OK" attitude. It's NOT OKAY when you die. Really.
The descriptions I've read from most people are about as close to the opposite of how he is that you* can get. He does NOT have an "it's OK" attitude. I don't know how y'all can be so judgmental without knowing the guy, basing your* entire opinion on a n00b's description of one incident which you* don't have all the details of and weren't there for.
* All the you's are all a collective "you" and not directed at Dr. B.
You let your trust in the legal PIC and the complexity of the machine shut down your judgement.
I've been thinking about darn near nothing else since. I haven't flown since. I've re-evaluated it over and over again. We had the plane reserved for another day and a half, Joe was reserved for another day and a half, we had a ride and a room at McGuire's Resort and an excellent A&P waiting for us back at CAD. We had set everything up specifically to avoid get-there-itis and we made a series of decisions without any pressure to continue.
I've had several additional conversations with my CFI about the issue. I've learned a lot about the airplane from him, from folks here, other people, and other research. Only one thing (Henning's ice-in-the-pill post) made me doubt things, and I've since found that was not the problem and the symptoms did not indicate it.
Unfortunately, while my intention was to learn about the airplane, I instead learned an awful lot about this board and online communities in general. Having been on the Internet since 1993 and on various other online communities back into the 80's, I thought I had a handle on how people act online. However, it seems that we in the aviation community are just a bit worse than the norm.
We post about stupid pilot tricks all the time here, and we ridicule pilots about their idiotic mistakes all the time. It didn't occur to me how very unhealthy of an attitude that is to have until I got an e-mail from a pilot friend yesterday about this very same issue.
Read the following and think about how we treat many accidents on this board:
A very wise pilot said:You certainly want to analyze flights with bad outcomes. And you can't ignore the decision-making process, because we all know that the commonest, most dangerous equipment failure in aircraft involves the nut holding the yoke. But if what you're taking away is "Hah, that would never happen to me", you are turning the process on its head and using information meant to UNDERMINE the hazardous invulnerability attitude to BOLSTER it instead.
What I've really learned is that things are different when it's your own butt in the seat. With everything I have learned from many sources since, if I knew everything then that I do now, I would still have made the trip. Sure, you can try to be nice to me and say it was my CFI's fault because he was the PIC. But, I was the one who decided to stay in the seat, who decided to get in that seat in the first place with a CFI who I trust not because he's got letters after his name, but because he has earned my trust time and time again. Had I felt the smallest shred of doubt about the successful outcome of the flight, especially the overwater portion, I'd have turned the plane around. It was, after all, MY hands on the controls.
Am I done thinking about this particular issue? Far from it. My next stop will be in the office of the flight school manager, who is a DPE and has more hours than anyone here, and probably more than most of us combined. This learning opportunity is certainly far from over, but I am finished with the particular incident here - I will be listening to those who have experience with the airplane and actually know the people involved.
As much as I respect many folks here, the fact that y'all can be so absolutely sure of how awful my CFI must be and exactly what decision you'd have made in the same situation after hearing a not-very-well-written account of the incident from a total newbie in the airplane leads me to believe that every one of us needs to take a long hard look at the large bold statement in the quoted passage above and reflect upon it for a while.
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