ScottM
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Just got some bad news from my step dad. He saw his doctors today and they have given him a short time left on this earth. His circulation is failing and he is barely getting any blood supply into his feet and legs. They are offering the option of starting to amputate but he feels enough is enough and does not want to take that option. His heart is failing and his kidneys have failed. He is also considering removing himself from taking dialysis and letting nature run its course.
My question is to help me help him what exactly can he expect in the way of 'letting nature take its course' if his feet start to die? What happens if he stops his dialysis? I am looking for the clinical process. It will help me to explain to him what to expect as we work through the decisions he has to make in the next few days.
He tells me he is tired and wants to go to see my mom. He is mentally preparing himself for death. This is the first time I have ever heard him give in. Normally he is a fighter and has been told he may die at any minute for the past 30 years. But he is 84 and eventually in the game of life the house will always win. I know that even now he is on borrowed time. With his heart and kidneys he was given an average of 1 year of survival. He was given that 15 months ago.
My question is to help me help him what exactly can he expect in the way of 'letting nature take its course' if his feet start to die? What happens if he stops his dialysis? I am looking for the clinical process. It will help me to explain to him what to expect as we work through the decisions he has to make in the next few days.
He tells me he is tired and wants to go to see my mom. He is mentally preparing himself for death. This is the first time I have ever heard him give in. Normally he is a fighter and has been told he may die at any minute for the past 30 years. But he is 84 and eventually in the game of life the house will always win. I know that even now he is on borrowed time. With his heart and kidneys he was given an average of 1 year of survival. He was given that 15 months ago.