Ted
The pilot formerly known as Twin Engine Ted
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My mother is 70, been retired since her mid 30s and hasn't used her brain much since retiring. Lives alone, doesn't get out much but has two homes she travels between. My grandmother had dementia as she aged, although starting in her 80s.
She's been seeming to lose touch with reality now and then, but usually in harmless manners so I've brushed it off as personality. She's been visiting us, and today my wife said my mom insisted I was home and she'd just been talking to me. I've been at the office since before she woke up, so this is concerning. She wasn't napping, so it's not likely that it was just a dream she confused for reality.
I'm wondering if dementia is setting in for her, and at what point she should get evaluated, and at what point I should start to really get concerned. I live about 1,000 miles away so I'm not able to make regular trips to check on her. There are people back home who I could ask to keep an eye on her. My concern is making sure she doesn't end up either making some mistake that hurts her (physically or financial) or getting somehow lost, especially while traveling. Fortunately, she doesn't drive.
She's been seeming to lose touch with reality now and then, but usually in harmless manners so I've brushed it off as personality. She's been visiting us, and today my wife said my mom insisted I was home and she'd just been talking to me. I've been at the office since before she woke up, so this is concerning. She wasn't napping, so it's not likely that it was just a dream she confused for reality.
I'm wondering if dementia is setting in for her, and at what point she should get evaluated, and at what point I should start to really get concerned. I live about 1,000 miles away so I'm not able to make regular trips to check on her. There are people back home who I could ask to keep an eye on her. My concern is making sure she doesn't end up either making some mistake that hurts her (physically or financial) or getting somehow lost, especially while traveling. Fortunately, she doesn't drive.