Oh yeah. I had one of those yesterday. "B****" is not a term I throw around lightly in reference to other women, but a tower controller I had to deal with yesterday was a Grade AAA example of the type. First, she clears a plane into a downwind approach that would put us on a course for a head on collision. So I mentioned to her where I was in case she couldn't see me yet (and it seemed to me from what the other pilot reported, we could arrive more or less at the same time--turns out the other plane was probably closer than reported). I was 8.5 miles out, and she came back and said "I told you to report 2 miles out, and you should follow instructions." Then she warned me about traffic, and when I said "Traffic in sight", she reamed me out because she thought I was talking about traffic on the runway in front of me (no, I was talking about the traffic in the air that you warned me about) and then said "You need to listen before you talk because you just stepped on me." Well, I didn't. She wasn't talking when I keyed my mike. It apparently did not occur to her that she might have stepped on me or that we happened to key our mikes at the same time (it happens). Her tone was unbelievable--I've never heard such sarcasm. My tongue was bloody from me biting it.
Sorry. Rant off.
Judy