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Seriously. I'm going to take a rep hit for this one, But I don't really care. Keep in mind everything that I'm writing is strictly my opinion. I'm not PREACHING to anyone, I'm simply saying how I feel, as you all did. When I say "you" I'm not referring to anyone here in general, infact my writing here can apply to so many things. Simply replace "ice" with "high wind" or anything really.
I've had this same debate before, and unless you are operating in an area to where you have two choices:
1.) Don't fly.
2.) Land on ice
You really have no business questioning another pilot's judgement on landing on ice. There is absolutely nothing wrong with landing on glare ice, I have done it myself more times then I can count. Guess what? I'm still alive. I've never even came CLOSE to busting an airplane up, I've never had an issue. An airplane will do what I want, for I give it no choice.
There is a very fine line in aviation, and learning how to dance this line, will make you a superior pilot. This line is pretty simple.
On one side you have the conservative fly-by-the-book pilot. They'll never do anything other then what was asked of them on the PTS. They'll never be a better pilot either, the day they passed their checkride. That will be the BEST they'll ever be.
On the other side of this line, you have the challenge. The thing that has incresased risk. If you operate in this area, your skill factor increases. Guess what happend with this line now? Now that line has moved over to where what was once a challenge is no longer a challenge and you can do it safely all day long.
Think back to the days to where you were a student pilot. Your first takeoff, your first landing, your first crosswind, your first solo. Were those things challenges to you? Damn right. Was the chance of an accident as a student pilot greater than a licensed pilot? Damn right.
Eventually you got to the point to where those things are no longer a challenge, the increased chance of an accident has dwindled and you can safely perform these tasks.
Landing on ice, Flying low on the deck, aerobatics, etc. All of these are the same way. If you never accept that increased risk and do these, you'll never be able to do them.
Throughout my entire primary training. I accepted from day one that I was going to teach myself to fly. I'm paying the CFI to make sure I don't bust up the airplane in the process. Eventually my skill factor was to the point to where there was no point in paying this CFI anymore, as I would not bust up the airplane.
When I received my PPL, I still did not consider myself a good pilot. Hell, I still don't. I knew I still had a ton of things to learn, I wasn't able to make an airplane do exactly what I wanted. I continuted to constantly push myself, and I am a superior pilot now. Many of these things that I do to make myself a better pilot some people would say is "reckless", simply because they do not do it. Whereas the people that do it, say there is absolutely no increased risk and you are an idiot for not practicing in such a manner.
So. You have those pilots out there who will takeoff and land on glare ice all day long, and you have those pilots who will not. (This ice situation can apply to everything....major winds..etc). These pilots that will fly on it, have absolutely no issue with it. So, You can just sit inside the FBO and watch them fly. It's your call. Don't question their judgement and they will not laugh at you for missing a perfectly good day.
Fly safe.