Go back to basic principles of taildraggery.
1. The tail wants to swap places with the nose.
2. Must have positive control of the tail to prevent #1.
3. Can accomplish #2 with airflow over tail surfaces, or by tailwheel contact with ground.
4. Transition between methods of #3 is high risk.
I don't have bush pilot experience, but the presence of gravel does not change the physics of a taildragger. Whenever I see people talking about lightening the tailwheel, tail low, etc etc etc, I get worried that they don't understand what they are doing and why they are doing it. With 30 hours of TD time you are probably not yet ahead of the aircraft enough to make up your own techniques, so I suggest you stick to the two proven landing techniques: 3-point, and wheel.
With 3 point, the objective is to control the tail by tailwheel contact with the ground.
With wheel, you initially control the tail by airflow, then transition to tailwheel contact when airflow is too weak for control. Substantial stick forward when on 2 wheels ensures you know how much airflow you have. When you don't have enough airflow to hold the tail up, you don't have enough to control the tail, and you need to transition decisively to 3 point.
Decide one or the other, and execute. "Tail low", "lighten the wheel", and other such methods are a deliberate decision to stay in the transition zone. Once you have a good feel for your airplane and several hundred hours you can develop specialized methods, but IMO at this stage in your skill development that is the path to a ground loop.
WRT your specific question about braking in 2 point attitude, airflow on the top of your elevator is going to hold your tail down and prevent you from nosing over. You can land fast on 2 wheels, get the stick firmly forward, and stand on the brakes and you won't nose over. UNTIL you slow down and lose airflow. Then you risk a prop strike.
That's why I'm opposed to mixing techniques until you are really experienced. I have known several pilots who had prop strikes in Citabria/Decathlon types. All were in 3 point stance, minimal airflow, not paying attention, poked the brakes, tail came up and nose went down. "Light tail" is just a recipe for that, especially on a rough surface.
BTW, my original CFI had 30K tailwheel hours. His advice: if you start losing it on the ground, first step is add power to get airflow. That gives you more control. Too few TD pilots understand that basic principle.