If you want to fly, don't go the enlisted route. You can get a slot in OCS in the AirForce without ROTC. Air Force Reserves is an option too. Talk to the officer recruiter there. Recruiters are going to blow a lot of smoke and promise you the moon. DO NOT GO IN WITHOUT A GUARANTEED ASSIGNMENT...
I would do Cape Fear Regional Jetport (KSUT) at Oak Island NC. Just a short taxi to Southport where you can grab a ferry to Bald Head Island. Plenty of inlets to fish. Local charters and with small kids you're only an hours drive to Myrtle Beach (or a short flight) for all of the touristy things...